You know we’re all wondering the same thing, right? What is it that will drive a man wild in bed?
We all know that men think a bit differently than us, and therefore we’re never quite sure if we’re satisfying his every whim or so far off course that we need a map to get it right.
And to make matters even more difficult, every man is different. And just like each of us have different likes and dislikes, turn-ons and turn-offs, so is true for men as well.
However, there are a few common truths that can lead us in the right direction to bringing him to heights of ecstasy he has never before known. Let’s start off with some of the basics.
Almighty Oral Sex
Can you think of a single man who has ever cringed away from being on the receiving end of oral sex? It’s possible, but I don’t think such a man exists. So, now you have a starting point for driving him wild in the bedroom.
However, not every man likes oral sex in the exact same way. Some men may like you to go as deep as you can, while others may enjoy the feel of an iced-cold tongue licking along his length. This is where you can have some fun.
Talk with him about his likes and dislikes in oral sex and then try out a few new techniques together to see what sends him over the brink. Trust me, your endeavor to find out just what he likes can be even more exciting than simply knowing his hot spots.
Give Him the Visual
Perhaps you may snicker or blush at the sexy, slinky and erotic attire at the lingerie stop, but the fact is, men love it!
Men are visual creatures. Their bodies respond to what they see and your body, sparsely hidden behind silk and lace, is going to get their sex engines revving into high gear.
Just think of what it will do for your own confidence to see him drooling over your lingerie-clad body.
Walk on the Wild Side
To keep him sexually satiated, keep your sexual “routine” from getting boring. Not many men want to hop in bed with the lights off at the end of the day for a quickie all of the time. Spice things up a little bit to keep him excited and it doesn’t matter what you use to make it spicy.
Throw in a little bit of role playing, try out a new sex toy, surprise him in the shower, have sex in the middle of the afternoon or on the kitchen table. Come home one evening wearing nothing but a raincoat, or better yet, have him come home from work and find you wearing nothing at all.
Show Off Your Own Desire
Men love to see a woman sexually excited. In fact, the more excited you are, the more excited he will become in response. Use your imaginations here, ladies. You can lay back and let his touches turn you on, or you can take it one step further and let him watch you do the work for him.
However, this area is sometimes a problem for some women. Particularly after hormonal changes that can occur with pregnancy or during menopause, the vagina often produces less lubrication.
This can make it more difficult for either one of you to get you sexually excited. Not just this, having sex without vaginal lubrication can make the intercourse painful and make a woman lose her libido.
Fortunately, products, such as Intivar, can help by restoring your body’s natural ability to produce vaginal lubrication so you’ll be hot and wet in no time.
Intivar is different from many other lubricants because it does not provide temporary, artificial lubrication. Instead, it gives your own body the ability to produce lubricant all the time, which alleviates the vaginal dryness that can interfere with sexual arousal.
So, now that you are armed with a few new ideas for rocking his world in bed, you can see which of them provokes his greatest response. Ultimately, the best way for you to find out his particular sexual triggers is to talk to him.
Turn it into an evening of naughty conversation and share your own turn-ons with him too. Just imagine the intensity of your next sensual encounter when you’re both on a mission to maximize pleasure!